BABA s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn biyolojik anlam\u0131 beni yaln\u0131zca “Mademki o \u00e7ocu\u011fun \/ \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n var olu\u015f nedenlerindensin, \u00f6yleyse onlara kar\u015f\u0131 sorumlulu\u011funu ya\u015fad\u0131k\u00e7a yerine getirmelisin.” anlam\u0131 kadar ilgilendiriyor.<\/p>\n
BABA s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn “ZORUNLU”luk i\u00e7eren k\u0131sm\u0131 bu. \u0130stesen de istemesen de, sevsen de sevmesen de buna “zorunlu”sun. (Ho\u015f bunu bile yerine getirmeyen babalar yok de\u011fil ama…)<\/p>\n
Ama benim GER\u00c7EK BABA’dan anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m bu de\u011fil.<\/p>\n
Ya da b\u00f6yle olan ya da olmayan babalarla yolum ayr\u0131 benim.<\/p>\n
BABA, g\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc koruyucu, g\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc \u015femsiye, \u00e7ad\u0131r\u0131n e\u011filip b\u00fck\u00fclmez ve k\u0131r\u0131lmaz orta dire\u011fidir.<\/p>\n
BABA, ya\u015f\u0131yorsa yoklu\u011funda bile g\u00f6lgesi hissedilen, ya\u015fam\u0131yorsa her zaman g\u00f6lgesi aranand\u0131r.<\/p>\n
BABA, rol\u00fc ikinci planda kalsa bile \u00e7o\u011fu zaman hayat oyunun kesintisiz ve kusursuz oynanmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flayan, oyunun sonunda ise alk\u0131\u015f beklemeyen gizli kahramand\u0131r.<\/p>\n
BABA, ayar veren olarak bazen rahats\u0131zl\u0131k verse de uzun vadede o ayarlarla daha mutlu ya\u015famlar\u0131n yolunu a\u00e7and\u0131r.<\/p>\n
BABA, de\u011feri sonradan anla\u015f\u0131lan, anla\u015f\u0131ld\u0131k\u00e7a daha \u00e7ok sevilen insand\u0131r.<\/p>\n
BABA, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnce g\u00f6zlerinde y\u00fcz voltluk lamba yanan insand\u0131r.<\/p>\n
BABA, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131ndan bir g\u00fcn ayr\u0131 kalmay\u0131 bile haks\u0131zl\u0131k, adaletsizlik olarak g\u00f6ren ama “Bu, onlar\u0131n hayat\u0131, mutlu olsunlar bileyim, bana bu da yeter.” diyendir.<\/p>\n
Son olarak “GER\u00c7EK BABA”lar, AHMET L\u00dcTF\u00dc URGAN ve YUSUF TURAN gibi insanlard\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Ne mutlu bana da Ayten’e de!<\/p>\n
Anneden yana da babadan yana da ne \u015fansl\u0131 insanlarm\u0131\u015f\u0131z!<\/p>\n
\u0130skele babalar\u0131n\u0131n de\u011fil, onlar gibi GER\u00c7EK BABA’lar\u0131n g\u00fcn\u00fc kutlu olsun!..<\/p>\n
\u00d6lm\u00fc\u015flerin an\u0131lar\u0131 sonsuza kadar yolumuzu ayd\u0131nlats\u0131n.<\/p>\n
Bir s\u00f6z\u00fcm de babas\u0131 \u015fu an ya\u015fayanlara…<\/p>\n
Baban\u0131z BABA gibi BABA ise,<\/p>\n
De\u011ferini sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bilin!..<\/p>\n
\u00d6lenin ard\u0131nda d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131 bile iyi \u015feyler s\u00f6yler, g\u00f6zya\u015f\u0131 bile d\u00f6ker…<\/p>\n
Sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda BABA’n\u0131za hak etti\u011fi g\u00fcler y\u00fcz\u00fc tatl\u0131 dili g\u00f6sterin.<\/p>\n
Babalar\u0131n beklentisi “HED\u0130YE” de\u011fildir, asla de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n
Onlar\u0131n hediyesi sizin sesinizi duymak, y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc g\u00f6rmek, mutlu oldu\u011funuzu hissetmektir.<\/p>\n
Onlar\u0131 her aray\u0131p sordu\u011funuzda d\u00fcnyan\u0131n en zengin insan\u0131 edersiniz.<\/p>\n
Haydi bakal\u0131m, bug\u00fcn BABA’lar\u0131 mutlu etme g\u00fcn\u00fc.<\/p>\n
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BABA s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn biyolojik anlam\u0131 beni yaln\u0131zca “Mademki o \u00e7ocu\u011fun \/ \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n var olu\u015f nedenlerindensin, \u00f6yleyse onlara kar\u015f\u0131 sorumlulu\u011funu ya\u015fad\u0131k\u00e7a yerine getirmelisin.” anlam\u0131 kadar ilgilendiriyor.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1286,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[19,14],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9447","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-halil-urgan","category-yazilar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arsiv.sozbizde.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9447","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arsiv.sozbizde.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arsiv.sozbizde.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arsiv.sozbizde.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arsiv.sozbizde.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9447"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/arsiv.sozbizde.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9447\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9449,"href":"https:\/\/arsiv.sozbizde.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9447\/revisions\/9449"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arsiv.sozbizde.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1286"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arsiv.sozbizde.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9447"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arsiv.sozbizde.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9447"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arsiv.sozbizde.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9447"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}